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Oliver Buchannon
Thomas Oppong

Dating & Relationships

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People Just Want to Know They Matter

Jan 31, 2026

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14 min read

People Just Want to Know They Matter

Why Recognizing Value Is the Foundation of Security in Marriage

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Community & Support

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Don't Become the Door Through Which Sin Destroys Your Marriage

Jan 30, 2026

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16 min read

Don't Become the Door Through Which Sin Destroys Your Marriage

How Small Compromises Invite Sin to Destroy a Marriage, and to Restoration

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Family

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Unless You Receive the Kingdom as a Child

Jan 29, 2026

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14 min read

Unless You Receive the Kingdom as a Child

Why Childlike Faith Is the Antidote to Anxiety

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Fatherhood

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Fatherhood Is a Mirror That Forces You to Confront Yourself

Jan 28, 2026

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14 min read

Fatherhood Is a Mirror That Forces You to Confront Yourself

And Why That's One of the Greatest Gifts You'll Ever Receive

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Fatherhood

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Quality Parenting Is Like Driving a Manual Transmission

Jan 27, 2026

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13 min read

Quality Parenting Is Like Driving a Manual Transmission

Why You Can't Just Put It in Drive and Hope for the Best

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Fatherhood

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Emotional Availability Is Not a Weakness. It's Legacy.

Jan 26, 2026

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11 min read

Emotional Availability Is Not a Weakness. It's Legacy.

What I'm Learning About Fatherhood Without a Blueprint

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Community & Support

We Know What to Do. We Just Can't Do It Alone.

Jan 25, 2026

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11 min read

We Know What to Do. We Just Can't Do It Alone.

Why Information Without Community Leads to Failure

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Leadership

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The Leadership Principle Jesus Taught That Most Leaders Ignore

Jan 24, 2026

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12 min read

The Leadership Principle Jesus Taught That Most Leaders Ignore

Why Seeking Feedback Is the Mark of Secure Leadership

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Marriage

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The Power of Making Your Spouse Feel Valued

Jan 23, 2026

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11 min read

The Power of Making Your Spouse Feel Valued

Why This One Thing Changes Everything in Marriage

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Marriage

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A Life of Minimum Destroys Marriages

Jan 22, 2026

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12 min read

A Life of Minimum Destroys Marriages

Why Just Doing Enough Is Never Enough

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Communication

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You Need to Learn to Say No

Jan 21, 2026

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14 min read

You Need to Learn to Say No

And Why Your Inability to Do So Is Destroying What Matters Most

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

The Word & Godliness

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Pause, and Count What You Already Have

Jan 20, 2026

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11 min read

Pause, and Count What You Already Have

Why Gratitude Might Be the Missing Ingredient in Your Marriage

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

The Word & Godliness

The Tragedy of Unrealized Potential

Jan 19, 2026

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9 min read

The Tragedy of Unrealized Potential

And the One Thing That Changes Everything

Called to Marriage
Thomas Oppong
Called to Marriage, +1

The Word & Godliness

You Don't Have as Much Time as You Think

Jan 18, 2026

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10 min read

You Don't Have as Much Time as You Think

Why Numbering Your Days Changes Everything

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Leadership

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This Practice Will Transform How You See Your Spouse

Jan 17, 2026

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11 min read

This Practice Will Transform How You See Your Spouse

Why Praying for Your Husband or Wife Changes Everything

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Dating & Relationships

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The One Thing Your Marriage Can't Survive Without

Jan 16, 2026

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11 min read

The One Thing Your Marriage Can't Survive Without

Why Security Is the Foundation of Everything Else

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Marriage

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Stop Withholding What Is Already in Your Hands

Jan 15, 2026

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9 min read

Stop Withholding What Is Already in Your Hands

Why Most Marriages Don't Need More Answers, Just More Obedience

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Marriage

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The Ease Multiplier in Marriage

Jan 14, 2026

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5 min read

The Ease Multiplier in Marriage

Why Love Should Not Feel So Hard to Give or Receive

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Leadership

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When Your Wife Carries All the Spiritual and Emotional Weight

Jan 13, 2026

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5 min read

When Your Wife Carries All the Spiritual and Emotional Weight

How Abdication Erodes Oneness and Exhausts Wives

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Women

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The Toothbrush Head That Changed My Morning

Jan 12, 2026

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7 min read

The Toothbrush Head That Changed My Morning

And Why the Smallest Acts of Service Matter Most

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Family

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Why My Wife Is the Most Selfless Person I Know

Jan 11, 2026

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7 min read

Why My Wife Is the Most Selfless Person I Know

And Why Marriage Is a Calling, Not a Lifestyle Choice

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

The Word & Godliness

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Oneness Is the Victory

Jan 10, 2026

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5 min read

Oneness Is the Victory

Why Every Marriage Is Called to Defend Its Unity

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

The Word & Godliness

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Obedience Opens Doors in Marriage

Jan 9, 2026

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5 min read

Obedience Opens Doors in Marriage

Why God’s Order Matters More Than Feelings

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Dating & Relationships

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Assume the Best

Jan 8, 2026

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5 min read

Assume the Best

Learning to Bear One Another's Weaknesses in Marriage

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong

Marriage

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The Quiet Responsibility of a Thriving Marriage

Jan 7, 2026

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4 min read

The Quiet Responsibility of a Thriving Marriage

Why Thriving Couples Must Be Stewards

Thomas Oppong
Thomas Oppong
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