Thomas Oppong

Marriage

Mar 19, 2026

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15 min read

Unity Begins Before the Wedding Day

Why Leaving and Cleaving Is the Foundation Every Relationship Is Built On

Thomas Oppong

Church and Ministry

Mar 13, 2026

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19 min read

The Age of Discernment

The Practice: A Word to the Church in the Age of Artificial Intelligence (Part Two)

Thomas Oppong

Church and Ministry

Mar 12, 2026

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15 min read

The Age of Discernment

The Problem the Church Is Not Naming: The Use of AI (Part One)

Thomas Oppong

Leadership

If You Stand for Everything, You Stand for Nothing (And Your Marriage Knows It)

Mar 10, 2026

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15 min read

If You Stand for Everything, You Stand for Nothing (And Your Marriage Knows It)

Why Values Are the Foundation That Determines Everything Else

Thomas Oppong

Communication

You're Destroying Your Marriage One Conversation at a Time

Mar 9, 2026

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13 min read

You're Destroying Your Marriage One Conversation at a Time

And You Don't Even Know It

Thomas Oppong

Men

The Question Most Men Never Ask (That Changes Everything)

Mar 8, 2026

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11 min read

The Question Most Men Never Ask (That Changes Everything)

What Do You Really Want from Life?

Thomas Oppong

Communication

The Test You're Failing Every Day (And Your Wife Knows It)

Mar 7, 2026

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8 min read

The Test You're Failing Every Day (And Your Wife Knows It)

What "Which Shoes Should I Wear?" Is Really Asking

Thomas Oppong

Communication

The Real Reason Most Marriages Struggle (And How to Fix It)

Mar 6, 2026

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11 min read

The Real Reason Most Marriages Struggle (And How to Fix It)

Three Biblical Keys to Communication That Honors God and Strengthens Your Marriage

Thomas Oppong

Communication

Mar 5, 2026

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7 min read

Can I Serve You?

The Ten-Second Question That Changes Everything in Marriage

Thomas Oppong

Men

Mar 4, 2026

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10 min read

How to Be a Blessing to Your Husband

11 Grace-Filled Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage

Thomas Oppong

The Word & Godliness

The Quiet Thief: Why Comparison Steals More Than You Think

Mar 3, 2026

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5 min read

The Quiet Thief: Why Comparison Steals More Than You Think

How to stop measuring your life against everyone else's and start noticing what God is already doing

Thomas Oppong

Leadership

The Courage to Ask: Why Godly Leaders Seek Feedback

Mar 2, 2026

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7 min read

The Courage to Ask: Why Godly Leaders Seek Feedback

How Christian husbands can grow in spiritual leadership by seeking honest feedback at home

Thomas Oppong

Q&A

The Conversation Practice That Keeps Our Marriage Connected

Mar 1, 2026

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20 min read

The Conversation Practice That Keeps Our Marriage Connected

Why Random Questions Create Safety for the Hard Conversations

Thomas Oppong

Dating & Relationships

Jan 31, 2026

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14 min read

People Just Want to Know They Matter

Why Recognizing Value Is the Foundation of Security in Marriage

Thomas Oppong

Community & Support

Don't Become the Door Through Which Sin Destroys Your Marriage

Jan 30, 2026

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16 min read

Don't Become the Door Through Which Sin Destroys Your Marriage

How Small Compromises Invite Sin to Destroy a Marriage, and to Restoration

Thomas Oppong

Family

Unless You Receive the Kingdom as a Child

Jan 29, 2026

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14 min read

Unless You Receive the Kingdom as a Child

Why Childlike Faith Is the Antidote to Anxiety

Thomas Oppong

Fatherhood

Jan 28, 2026

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14 min read

Fatherhood Is a Mirror That Forces You to Confront Yourself

And Why That's One of the Greatest Gifts You'll Ever Receive

Thomas Oppong

Fatherhood

Quality Parenting Is Like Driving a Manual Transmission

Jan 27, 2026

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13 min read

Quality Parenting Is Like Driving a Manual Transmission

Why You Can't Just Put It in Drive and Hope for the Best

Thomas Oppong

Fatherhood

Emotional Availability Is Not a Weakness. It's Legacy.

Jan 26, 2026

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11 min read

Emotional Availability Is Not a Weakness. It's Legacy.

What I'm Learning About Fatherhood Without a Blueprint

Thomas Oppong

Community & Support

We Know What to Do. We Just Can't Do It Alone.

Jan 25, 2026

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11 min read

We Know What to Do. We Just Can't Do It Alone.

Why Information Without Community Leads to Failure

Thomas Oppong

Leadership

Jan 24, 2026

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12 min read

The Leadership Principle Jesus Taught That Most Leaders Ignore

Why Seeking Feedback Is the Mark of Secure Leadership

Thomas Oppong

Marriage

The Power of Making Your Spouse Feel Valued

Jan 23, 2026

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11 min read

The Power of Making Your Spouse Feel Valued

Why This One Thing Changes Everything in Marriage

Thomas Oppong

Marriage

Jan 22, 2026

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12 min read

A Life of Minimum Destroys Marriages

Why Just Doing Enough Is Never Enough

Thomas Oppong

Communication

Jan 21, 2026

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14 min read

You Need to Learn to Say No

And Why Your Inability to Do So Is Destroying What Matters Most

Thomas Oppong

The Word & Godliness

Jan 20, 2026

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11 min read

Pause, and Count What You Already Have

Why Gratitude Might Be the Missing Ingredient in Your Marriage

Thomas Oppong

Thomas Oppong

Unity Begins Before the Wedding Day

The Age of Discernment

The Age of Discernment

If You Stand for Everything, You Stand for Nothing (And Your Marriage Knows It)

You're Destroying Your Marriage One Conversation at a Time

The Question Most Men Never Ask (That Changes Everything)

The Test You're Failing Every Day (And Your Wife Knows It)

The Real Reason Most Marriages Struggle (And How to Fix It)

Can I Serve You?

How to Be a Blessing to Your Husband

The Quiet Thief: Why Comparison Steals More Than You Think

The Courage to Ask: Why Godly Leaders Seek Feedback

The Conversation Practice That Keeps Our Marriage Connected

People Just Want to Know They Matter

Don't Become the Door Through Which Sin Destroys Your Marriage

Unless You Receive the Kingdom as a Child

Fatherhood Is a Mirror That Forces You to Confront Yourself

Quality Parenting Is Like Driving a Manual Transmission

Emotional Availability Is Not a Weakness. It's Legacy.

We Know What to Do. We Just Can't Do It Alone.

The Leadership Principle Jesus Taught That Most Leaders Ignore

The Power of Making Your Spouse Feel Valued

A Life of Minimum Destroys Marriages

You Need to Learn to Say No

Pause, and Count What You Already Have

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